Why do people think too much on their problems?
Why do people begin telling their problems to the others?
Why do people keep complaining and whining about their problems?
…without doing anything at all?
By the time all of those rituals are done, they will hopefully begin to tell you anything about them. And you, as a good listener, perhaps, will definitely listen to them, unwillingly and unavoidably. They will envy your life. And telling you , how wonderful your life is. Without having any problem at all.
Wrong. Nobody has never experienced no problem. Not even the most succesful one. They are successful because they succeeded in getting through all the hard time they’re given.
God won’t give us problem which we can’t handle. We have the power to handle it. God gives us. But most of the time, you’ll get so panic and frustated when you’re facing one. And beginning to forget anything but the problem itself. No, it’s not abnormal.
It’s normal, indeed. We’re only human after all. Just don’t be too overreacted and thinking about it too much. It will only get yourself deeper into your problem if you do so. Seriously.
Believe it will get better, and you’ll find it better in no time at all! That’s what I always thought. Keep having positive thought about everything. And hopefully those positive things will come to you.
Well, you probably do not believe me. Actually, I’m just telling what’s in my head. And it’s your right to believe what you want to believe. I know nothing about humanity. It’s not the subject I’ve been studying anyway. I’m just telling something that people usually called it ‘suggestion’.
No hard feeling, by the way.
WHY THE HECK DON’T THEY JUST FIND A WAY TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS INSTEAD OF DOING ALL THINGS MENTIONED ABOVE?
At least, that’s what I do if I were them. Trying to solve it without even bothering to whine and telling my problem to the others. Uh-oh, it looks like my own statement brings me another question, don’t worry it won’t take long and will be just a one last simple question :
Why don’t they just ask thing like ‘what would you do if you were me?’ to solve their problems after all?